Accidental Meetings
ACCIDENTAL MEETINGS...
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Have you ever noticed that in the subway of the city we never met one of our kith accidentally. But these meetings are not uncommon in the lanes of the village. As of now , we have no memories of meeting accidentally with a old classmate when you was just roaming in the garden Or meeting with the old crush of your childhood to whom once you want to marry Or meeting with the school teacher of earlier classes who taught you abcd and life lessons.
Note- I'm happy to see you here for the first time, as I'm a novice in writing, you are requested to ignore any grammatical error(if any). We are seeking your focus in understanding the matter.We are sharing with you because we are caring.We will happy to see you here again.Your suggestion and comments will be highly appreciated.
Have you ever noticed that in the subway of the city we never met one of our kith accidentally. But these meetings are not uncommon in the lanes of the village. As of now , we have no memories of meeting accidentally with a old classmate when you was just roaming in the garden Or meeting with the old crush of your childhood to whom once you want to marry Or meeting with the school teacher of earlier classes who taught you abcd and life lessons.
So what
?? Probability of occurring these
events are low in cities (specially in metro cities) because of population. What’s wrong in it if we never face Accidental Meetings ?? What are the pros if we can it in village ?? How we can insure Accidental Meetings ??
These are the questions you may raise. So here’s the answers.
What
Someone who
just want to scroll down the news feed of facebook or just want to chat
(virtual communication) with kiths and kins may ask “so what”.
These non
occurring events indicates our reluctance to meet with old friends , old
neighbours and old teachers until it
hardly needed. Last year when a business tycoon launched a telecom company
which offered free Internet and free voice calls till the end of first quarter
of this year , In that period , have you received a single call from your old
classmate who just want to gossip with you . I want to know your answer but
mine is no. But chances of receiving calls from one who is unemployed are more
low than employed. As I call them “
Unemployed are the busiest persons in the world “ , will discuss about
them on some another day.( I’m highlighting free offer period because i know
how conscious we are about our balances of mobiles). What we have did and want to do is just
liking the pictures on facebook , commenting or sharing them , and chat with
persons called as friends . But you will have noticed that when we meet the
same person to whom you chatted , then
they will again commenting , liking, sharing and texting with some one else.And
when they met the someone else person they again keep commenting , liking,
sharing and texting with 2nd
someone else person and so on. So what i want to tell is that by living in that
virtual world we are missing interaction
with someone to whom you can share your
ideas , goals , achievements and problems you are facing right now.
Population
Most common argument for not occurring these
accidental meetings is ‘ large population of the cities ‘ you may argue. But i don’t buy these
argument.Let me explain with an example.When i was in my village,most of the
time i didn’t felt the need to introduce
myself as they all know me personally but however if needed chanting of my
father’s or grandfather’s name is enough for them to get acquainted and trust
on me.My village have approx. 5000-7000 inhabitant and i know half of them
personally and rest of them can know me personally by name of father or
grandfather.All i want of elaborate is that the population of the cities may be
the hurdle in Accidental Meetings but i can give you personally guarantee that
even in a city if you don’t have to introduce yourself in front of 2500-3500
people and the same number can trust on you by knowing your father’s name then you will see the rapid increase in number
of Accidental Meetings and you could expect your old neighbourhood while you are roaming in a park.
What’s wrong & pros
By not connecting and communicating with each other
we are losing social connection and sensitiveness towards humanity that
leads to untoward incidents. You may be thinking that i’m totally out of
context but trust me i’m not. All the untoward incidents are not directly
linked with accidental meetings but somehow they can be prevented from
occurring to some extent.Even if it
couldn’t prevented then aftermath can be faced more strongly.Most of the crimes
like murder, robbery ,assaulting , molesting and acid attacks happen openly and
we must try to stop them no matter we know the aggrieved or not , but if
someone is acquainted is available in crowd then it becomes natural to stop
these crimes. If something bad like this happens in village then the aftermath you may have
seen in newspapers headlines like lynching of accused however no one including me supports assassination of accused
in such a way. In other cases too we can seek help from them which may not
possible from non-acquainted persons.It’s not only about helping and saving but
to create a huge family so that members could be helped and change of ideas,
thoughts and problems between members can be insured to live with peace and
harmony.
Insurance
Now the last but not the least.Question is how
to cure it ??? First of all we must refrain ourselves from just taping the cell
phone screen unnecessarily , But to use
it as a platform to share the ideas , thoughts , experiences and problems so
that others can benefited from it. It must be used as a family group where
anyone can share the challenges they face in day-to-day activities and
experienced persons will give advice. Secondly , we should prefer outdoor games
over indoor games because it not only keep us fit but it also teach us team
work and unity power. Lastly, we should keep ourselves more available for
others so that no one has to take a appointment
to meet, as it now required even when two friends meet. So make a call
to friend and book the last appointment and fix the time and in between the
meeting make the pledge to meet at regular interval.
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